2/2 Those "theories" were too outlandish for her.
In mid-2016, I started paying attention to the election. I knew my oldest son would be entering the Marine Corps soon, and I knew my vote might determine his Commander-in-Chief.
It wasn't until the spring of 2017 that I fully boarded the Trump Train (Wictor helped).
For the Mrs., it took another two years, and the 2020 election sealed the deal.
She too is radically compassionate and believed the media. Her eyes are open now.
P.S. I'm confident your wife will fully come around. I learned (probably later than I should have) that I couldn't convince my wife. She needed her own "aha" moment. Once I learned to keep quiet, she sought out answers for herself. Didn't take long.
Those who label words as violence do so with the sole purpose of justifying violence against words.